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Ways Of Improving Communication

To build a beautiful relationship with anybody you need to have a communication. We can not live in isolation, we have to connect to others so we need to communicate with others.till the death we keep on communicating with others as without it life is really difficult. So here are the ways which help in creating effective communication for harmony.

* Listen with both ears. - sister says that you should be an active listener by tuning in fully and being present fully with the person and with the moment. You must be listen to other person with the feeling that the other person also has the right to speak , he has his own perspective and he can also be right in his opinion.If you listen through one ear and let it out of the other, or only half listen, then you will create misunderstandings.

* Listen think and then create an opinion. Do not go on assumptions, imaginations or judgements because when you do this, your critical vision prevents others from expressing what they wish to say. Then, because of wrong or half-right assumptions, others are not given the possibility to improve, or express, outside the boundaries of what we think of them. To give others a true chance to express themselves, we must not place our own boundaries around them.

* Think before speaking. This is not something new, but however often we hear it, we forget to apply it. To think before speaking means to show consideration to the other and then we say the right thing, at the right time, in the right way.

* Say what we mean, always. When we speak with courage and a calm self-confidence without force, then communication is honest, open, clear and trusted. Courage doesn’t mean to say what we think others want to hear. If we lack courage because of the need for approval and acceptance, or because of a lack of confidence, then communication and the consequent relationship remains superficial and artificial. No one feels satisfied with this situation.

* Learn the language of silence. It is the basis of right intentions, positive feelings and clear attitudes. In this language, there is only one grammar: honesty and kindness. Honesty creates clarity and kindness creates respectfulness.
When we take time to reflect on our level of communication with everyone we meet, the realizations we have in silence will be manifested (displayed) in the higher quality and ease of interaction that we will find in all relations: be it with the self, with others or with the Supreme Source of Light.
* There should not be breakdown in communication- At times of fights with friends, husband wife. People stop talking to each other so this breakdown of communication is a wrong thing. It creates stress, develops the negative energy till they are not back on the talking terms. It effects family specially the children. So solve the issues with proper communication. Don’t wait for the other person to come and say sorry.
Practice this it will help you to communicate in the right way.

 

* Learn the language of silence. It is the basis of right intentions, positive feelings and clear attitudes. In this language, there is only one grammar: honesty and kindness. Honesty creates clarity and kindness creates respectfulness.

When we take time to reflect on our level of communication with everyone we meet, the realizations we have in silence will be manifested (displayed) in the higher quality and ease of interaction that we will find in all relations: be it with the self, with others or with the Supreme Source of Light.

brahma kumaris                 Brahma Kumaris- sister Shivani

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